Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

Last Updated: 03.07.2025 03:36

Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

That's not an interview for a stand-up artist.

If she is not creative in her messages, no guy would care either.

BTW all the girls start their messages with a similar simple greeting.

Islam is definitely a very anti-LGBTQ religion, so why don't liberals ever stage pro-LGBTQ demonstrations at mosques or at the consulates/embassies of Muslim countries?

Because it's a standard phrase to start communication.

It's one of the reason why pickup trainings suck.

If a hot girl pays attention to me it doesn't really matter what she says. Her attention is enough.

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?

People choose a partner by sexual attractiveness in the first place.

No country for ugly people…

Of course, farther on when you start chatting moreover dating being smart and creative will really impress, but only as a SUPPLEMENT to attractive look.

When British people write X after everything, are they being serious or trying not to be awkward?

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